I'm grateful that as a quiet, bookish girl I had a physical outlet like tennis to channel my energy and intensity. Sports can sometimes take precedence over academics, but they can also be empowering on many levels. Here's a link to a beautiful, courageous essay written by Christine Stark, an award-winning writer (Nickels: A Tale of Dissociation) and friend of mine from grad school at Minnesota State University, Mankato. Please read it and share it with others:
http://open.salon.com/blog/ontheissuesmagazine/2012/08/16/becoming_glory_kicking_goals_to_transcend_the_night_a_memo